First Moon

Too often, the coming of age for a girl is steeped in embarassment and secrecy as menstruation seems to be something that women are made to feel ashamed about. Instead of embracing this transformation, women often are made to think that their menarche, or first period, is gross, and should be hidden. The transition from girl into womanhood is a powerful time, and First Moons should be celebrated for the incredible shift that they are!

Sometimes known as a Red Party, Blossoming or Maidening, I have chosen to call the ceremony in celebration of the rite of passage into womanhood a First Moon. First Moons should be beautiful, fun, and a celebration of womanhood. The moon is a feminine symbol, and it’s waxing and waning has often been associated with a woman’s bodies as it changes.

It is a good idea to involve the maiden in her ritual planning, and let her choose the guests she would feel most comfortable.

Here are some ideas for a First Moon ceremony:

Everyone wear something that is red.
Create a flower crown for the Maiden.
Red foods could be served, as well as red drinks.
Honor the elements in the ritual or with an altar created by the guests.
Honor the names of mothers, grandmothers, sisters, aunts and other women that may not be able to attend or are no longer with us.
Allow conversation about women that each of the guests admired, including grandmothers. Talk about the joys and the struggles of womanhood.
Releasing childhood ceremony by choosing an item from childhood that will be released, and leaving it behind as she steps into womanhood either over a real or symbolic threshold such as a red dyed cord creating a circle.
Royal toe reading, after which the Maiden steps from the circle into her Maidenhood.
Create a pouch and allow each guest to bring a small item for it such as seashells, crystals, moon icons, feathers, etc.
Incorporating a blessing into the ceremony.
Using henna to create decorations on her hands.
Gift-giving.
Include music or dance.
Gift the Maiden with a new middle name that has spiritual or family meaning.

Together, we can plan an empowering ceremony to honor this transition from girl to maidenhood!

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